A lady can leave a guy she’s been with for 5 years to follow a guy she sees for just 5 mins. That’s how weird they can be. I want you to know, not only men are moved by what they see. Women too are often moved by what they see also. That’s human nature for you!
Afterall, seeing is believing!
At that point, she already believed the guy she saw within that period of 5 mins is better than the guy she’s been with over the span of 5 years. Trust me on this, most women are wired to be HYPERGAMY.
What then is Hypergamy?
It’s a process whereby someone is programmed to chase something (like position, car etc) or someone better. To her, the guy that cracked her wild & made her laugh just now is more funny that the guy she’s been with— over the years.
That’s being emotional.
That moment when you bow to your feelings. And trust me… like harlot, feelings doesn’t stand a night. It comes & goes! Just like Nigerian economy — very unstable.
This is why most of the break-ups recorded in history always rakes from the female part. It’s either they leave the guy to follow after another or they cheat & caught in the act & sent away. This is not my opinion, but pure fact!
This is why when break-up happens, some idiots (self-acclaimed alpha-males) will be abusing the guy—calling him a simp. Lmao.
Listen, they’re all imbeciles. Zombie. What they fail to understand is that, in a relationship, doing simple things for your babe doesn’t make you a simp. You simp when you lose yourself because you lose a relationship. Real men don’t place their all inside a relationship.
Listen guy, it’s not your fault you loved your woman dearly. It’s her loss she did what she did. Besides, a woman’s emotion is what you can’t control. But what you’ve control over, is how you react to her emotional consequences.
Unlike the guy right now, he’d remember how far they’ve been coming. What he stands to lose if he loses his girlfriend. He’ll even believe the new lady that pose like an angel today can become the worst devil tomorrow. Isn’t that how they change? Like chameleon. Can be worse, no matter how bad his girlfriend is.
This is being critical — critical thinking!
Final Note: This is why I usually admonish my ladies to embrace ‘reading’ as a lifestyle. When you study quality materials authored by successful personnels, you tap into their wisdom. Plus, it improves your brain’s texture. Good luck hearing from us @newssphere next time!